Breaking Free with Lindsay

Episode 43 - Diamond Drip: Finding Your Authentic Self Through Human Design

Lindsay Ford Episode 43

Knowing who you are is the key to your success. In this episode, Diamond Drip and I dive into building businesses and the importance of knowing your human design.

She shares her own experiences of seeing success happen for everyone around her while she sat by quietly wondering what was wrong with her, and how everything shifted once she started understanding her soul’s blueprint.

More about Diamond Drip 👇

Diamond Drip, an award-winning speaker whose journey has been featured on KQED radio news, OnStage Plus Television, New York Weekly and loads of podcasts. Her mission? Helping women break free from fear and self-doubt, and step boldly into their power. Using tools like Human Design and Gene Keys, she guides folks to trust their intuition, embrace authenticity, and unlock their full potential.

Connect with Diamond👇

Website: https://www.diamonddripconsulting.com/humandesignchart

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diamonddrip/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DiamondDripsDiscussions

IG: https://www.instagram.com/DiamondDripsDiscussions/

If you want to break free from the 9 to 5 or spend more time with your family, then check out this FREE webinar that goes over exactly what I'm doing to create time and financial freedom.
https://www.breakingfreewithlindsay.com/learn


If you ever have any questions or want to reach out - I'd love to connect with you. Send me a DM on Facebook (it's the best way to reach me!)


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Lindsay Ford: Well, I am very excited to have diamond drip here today. Welcome to the podcast diamond.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Thank you for having me. I'm excited.

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Lindsay Ford: Now. I want to start with your story. We're going to keep it. Career focused today because you have a journey from a bricks and mortar business

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Lindsay Ford: to a business coaching, realignment practitioner. You're into all sorts of fun, energy stuff. So I'd love for you to take us through your your career journey of when you started. I don't know if there's anything before your bricks and mortar business, but take us on. Take us on the journey.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Yeah, for sure. So the product based business that I started. It was after I lost my job as the general manager of a gym.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I don't think I would have ever thought about entrepreneurship before that point. But I was getting sick and tired of, you know, trying to make the system work, how it was designed, which was like, go to school, get good grades, get a good job, because obviously, even when you have a good job. You can lose that job due to circumstances outside of your control.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: So I was like, Okay, well, since I want to take the power back into my hands. I'm going to figure out how to how to do this thing, and

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I had no idea where to start or how to start, but somehow I did enough research. I guess my one line came out. I did enough research. And

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I was like, Okay, I think you've researched all you can. It's time to just, you know, launch this bad boy.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and I did. And that 1st that 1st debut was, I'll be honest, very affordable. But I learned a lot.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I learned a lot, and despite how I started, that business grew very successfully. And so

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I was having

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: a lot of

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: creativity that wanted to come out. The 1st business that I had was very much straightforward. It was. You have the product. You assign the profit margin, and then

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: that's the cost like that's

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: you can be creative with sales, you can.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: creative with marketing. But

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: there's not really a lot of space, or at least for me it wasn't. And so at the same time that I started my 1st business. I was also in school, getting my visual communications degree.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and so I launched my side business like my second business as a side hustle. So I was doing like graphic design, making Logos you know, doing websites, etc. And that allowed me to use what I was learning in school

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: in a really practical matter cause not everyone has that skill set, and I learned that because I would be working with clients. Sometimes they're like, Oh, you just do this thing. And they're like, I have no idea what you did. So

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: it's not just.

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Lindsay Ford: Magic.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Right, I'm like, Oh, it was, you know.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And so

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I was growing both businesses concurrently while being in school and then also being a mom of a toddler, which, as you know.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: is it John.

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Lindsay Ford: Purple! Oh.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Right is a job of its very own, and I was rapidly burning out. It felt like I could never take a day off. It felt like I could never be

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: with Taylor. That's my daughter's name. It felt like I could never spend like quality time with her, with my partner like it was.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: it was really starting to drain me, and

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I wanted a solution to the the root cause, which was the feelings that I was having. The depression, the

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: by these external measures like

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I can't quit any one of them, because then I won't be able to say I'm running 2 businesses while being a student and a mom. And people see that. And they're like, Oh, you're so strong. And they're these.

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Lindsay Ford: Right.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Labels that you like. If I give any one of them up, then it's like I'm I'm.

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Lindsay Ford: Not as cool.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Right or

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and so I wanted to get to the root of that problem that not enough problem. And so I participated in a trial that actually healed my depression.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and they used psilocybin, which is the active component in magic mushrooms to actually help me

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: rewrite those old stories that I was telling myself from

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: trauma that has been discussed in plenty of other podcast interviews.

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Lindsay Ford: Don't have to dive into that.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And it was with clear eyes after that trial that I took a look at my life, and I was like, Oh, my gosh! Something has to change like you gotta

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: you gotta do something because you're not supposed to feel like

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: you're a slave to these businesses, to this life that you created you created this

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and they say, never make any big changes after you go through a hero. Dose experience with psilocybin

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and I adhered to that. So about 8 months after my trial ended, while I was very much in the integration phase. Still, on this personal development journey.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I actually ended up shutting down my 1st business, the product based business that was paying all of the bills. And I took a look at

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: what I liked from that business what I liked, from what I was doing with my side business, which was, interestingly enough, a lot of coaching

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: because I had to coach business owners to understand their niche, to understand their messaging in order for me to create something visual to represent that.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And so I I said, Okay, why don't I do a coaching model instead? Because that seems to be the thing that I love helping people get through these

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: you don't really have to think about like your self-worth or anything. You just kinda

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: have the product. And it's you show up. And people like it, or they don't. There's read like, there's this whole thing.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: But when I entered this online coaching space, people buy you

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: before they buy anything

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and that that forced me to really get triggered and and actually start living in one of my shadows. Which is this need for external validation.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And so I joined a business coaching program that promised to fix

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: all of that with the proven methods and the frameworks, and you follow these steps and

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: you'll have success. You'll have the launches.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And I remember it was a year long program. I remember seeing it work for everyone else around me, but it wasn't working for me.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I remember, you know, making myself wrong for it and trying to really, desperately figure out like what my business superpower was.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: because that was the one thing that they all were harping on, and it seemed like that was maybe the thing that I didn't have that everyone else had.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: which was why they were having success, and

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: throughout my life my everyone around me has said that, like your energy, is infectious, it's contagious, even through my depression, because we know how to put on masks that.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I was like, but I can't monetize energy like I can't teach people how to have my energy. I can't.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I don't know how. That's my superpower, necessarily, but that's the one thing that everyone

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: a couple months into trying to figure out what this superpower was. I was asked a really critical question.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: which was, Do you know your energy type.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and I had no idea what she was talking about.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: But I she sent me a calculator, and I the one immediately

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: kicked in. And I was like, Okay, what is?

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: The calculator said that I was a generator

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: in human design. 5, 1 emotional authority and every

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: research rabbit hole that I went down to figure out what these things meant in in layman's terms.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: It was like, Oh, my gosh, this is me! This is, it feels like someone has been just looking at my life and is able to verbalize what is happening.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And even though I didn't know how it was, gonna tie into what I was doing with my business coaching clients. I was like, this is something that

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I feel like is needed. I feel like people need to know who they are

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: like truly, how they show up in the world, so that they can make the most out of their gifts and really bring them into whatever business they're creating.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: that kind of launched the pivot from business coach into more of the the spiritual things, and as I deepen my own insight through human design and gene keys, and found these other tools like you mentioned the Akashic records

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I now get to help the clients that I was helping and any new clients that come to me for business and branding insights with these tools so that we can really create

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: strong brand identity, strong online presence.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: That's not gonna change. Because when we when we're focused on

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: like what we think we should be doing like that's gonna change as the trends change. And then your whole brand changes, and people need brands that stick.

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Lindsay Ford: So funny in the context of our pre-recording conversation. Where I'm like, my brand is just shifting.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: No, no, no, no, but that's what happens, because, as we evolve and we grow.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: our brands can grow with us. But if you create a strong brand in the in the beginning, like it won't.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: it won't.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: The message will still be the same. It may just look a little bit different. So that's that. I totally remembered our Pre podcast chat. But no, it's

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I love your brand. And I love that the one thing that stuck through with each of the shifts was like you like you. It was through Momming. It was through like it was

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Lindsay Ford: Oh, I appreciate that, because it's still like a massive work in progress. But I want to go back to what you were saying about when you were talking about. You know, you own 2 businesses. You were in school. You're a mom. And just that being part of your identity and people commenting of like, how strong you are, probably how capable you are like. Wow! Look at you!

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Lindsay Ford: from like with that external validation. I can totally relate to some of that, because when you get really great external validation, it feels really good. And you're like, Oh, I'm on the right track, and when those things solidify into your identity

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Lindsay Ford: I'll say, difficult to shake. But it just becomes another belief system we got to work through because your success was not defined by any one of those things, or doing all 4 of those things combined.

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Lindsay Ford: It's and and I know I went through.

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Lindsay Ford: A similar. It wasn't similar, actually. But like, I'll say, a similar identity shift. The context was completely different of just like, who am I? If I'm not, you know, like in a successful career. Who am I? If I'm not earning 6 figures, who am I? If I'm only a stay at home, mom, like, I just like there's so many

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Lindsay Ford: start to notice where you're attached to your identity. And then because it's not necessarily serving you. Some of the identities are great, or the things that you really identify with. But

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Lindsay Ford: is just another belief system that's holding you back in some areas.

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Lindsay Ford: you mentioned that, you know, shifting from you.

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Lindsay Ford: You've mentioned shifting from your product based business dropping that completely. That was sort of your highest income at that point.

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Lindsay Ford: What was going through your mind and your thought process at that point, as you're walking away from what I'm guessing was, you know.

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Lindsay Ford: you know, some security there with the money you were making.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: one of the things that was going through my mind was that was the

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: graphic design I could do from anywhere but that business. It was very much in person. It was very much requiring a lot of me being there, taking the calls, you know, having the conversations with people.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: it didn't feel freeing anymore. Like, I started that business like just before Covid.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: this other business, because so many times we want to wait until the other business is up and running. But

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I had to take an honest look, and I was like, well, if I'm spending all my time over here, this isn't gonna get my full focus.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: This isn't gonna get the attention that it deserves to help me get it off the ground as quickly as possible.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: If I'm spending all my time over here and just giving this like bits and pieces. I was like. I have to free up

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: me. I have to free up and start over, even though it may be scary, but I have to do it because this deserves all of my attention.

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Lindsay Ford: Yeah, that makes complete sense to me. I did

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Lindsay Ford: yeah, I think you're right. A lot of people want to

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Lindsay Ford: either build it to success or have sort of a guaranteed success plan, and forgetting that, you know, to stay where they are or to split their focus, means that they're just sort of prolonging the agony of staying stuck in a life that they really don't want, or at least aspects of a life that they really don't want.

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Lindsay Ford: and I think it takes

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Lindsay Ford: I'll say, a tremendous amount of courage to step into the unknown and that unknown path, and going towards something you want.

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Lindsay Ford: But it's not. I'll say I'll say tremendous courage, because I know I do know what it takes, but it also

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Lindsay Ford: that I mean, I think everyone can has the capacity to do that. And there's so much

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Lindsay Ford: that prevents people from walking towards what they want. They would rather stay stuck in a life that is miserable where they're not seeing their kids. They don't have enough quality time with their partner because of the security of money.

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Lindsay Ford: Into more of the spiritual realm. And you said you were introduced to human design. And then gene codes and Akashic record. So I'm wondering if you might just like explain

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Lindsay Ford: Concisely as as we can, just to give a little snippet, because I'm familiar with. I am not familiar with gene codes, but the other ones I am. But yeah, why don't we start with some? I'll say definitions.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Yeah. So human design is a synthesis of a bunch of different sciences. So

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: to name a few for context, it's like astrology, astronomy, quantum physics, the Chinese, I ching the Chakra model kabolatry of life. And so what it does is it looks at these different sciences, and it creates what's called a body graph chart, where they all kind of map out over each other, and they, the shape

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: behind most generated calculators is a person. It looks like a person, and then you have, like the 9 energy centers. And this gives you a map of how your energy flows, how you were designed to make your best, most aligned decisions based on the gifts and things that you're seeing defined in the chart.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And so it's a really practical way of getting to know that inner voice inside of you, so that you don't have to second. Guess yourself with all of the outside noise that comes into the

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: the energy centers.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Gene Keys

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Every single one of the 64 gene keys corresponds to a gate in human design.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: But in gene keys it looks at the different frequencies. It takes a look at the quantum like we're all vibrating. We're all energy. And so it takes a look at like the lower energies, the gift, and the higher. You know, everything's aligning. We're moving towards our purpose, and abundance has that frequency.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and it gives you insight into areas where you've lived in those lower frequencies.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: prompts you to think about and contemplate how you could have stepped into the gift frequencies, because hindsight is always 2020 in the moment when we're living in the shadows, we make decisions. And we're like this was the best option, but when we have some space it's like, No, I guess I could have.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: you know, shifted my perspective there a little bit. And so Gene Keys gives you kind of some tools to work through that contemplation. And then the Akashic records I found more recently. I'm still getting certified and being a soul realignment practitioner for that.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: when our soul was created, there was this divine soul, blueprint kind of laid out for us, and of course we have free will.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: so we can always choose to make positive choices that move us along our path.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: or we can choose to make negative choices out of fear or scarcity, or whatever those lower frequencies are that take us farther away from our path. And so the Akashic records takes a look at those choices that may have knocked you out of alignment so that you can really start to

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: And it takes a look at, because, you know, time doesn't exist in the 5th dimension, and that's

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Right? That's a whole other conversation. But it really takes you past those, through those past lifetimes and helps you really self identify some key areas where you can kind of shift into positive.

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Lindsay Ford: Yeah. And it sounds like all 3 of them are really.

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Lindsay Ford: the same human, the the ones that you mentioned, anyways, the generator, 5. 1 emotional generator.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: it's actually aligned for us to ride those waves to really come to clarity over things like you're not always going to make a decision when everything's like super exciting. And it's a yes, you're not always going to make decisions when you're in a low. It's actually aligned for you, especially with the big ones like relationships career. If you're about to move to really take your time and figure out like, okay, this is right for me. This feels

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and we have to be careful of that sometimes, because we can research

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Lindsay Ford: It was so helpful for me to understand that I was a generator and that I was.

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Lindsay Ford: I needed to. I need something to react to. I couldn't just like create from a space of nothingness. I needed to be out there, living my life, to have content to write about, to have perspectives. You know you, you said people love your energy, and you never understood really what that meant. People have always said, I love your perspective, and I'm like.

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Lindsay Ford: there were times when I was just like brimming with ideas? And just, you know, like I couldn't keep the ideas out of me. And then that all stopped. And I'm like, what's going on like. Normally, I'm so full of ideas. But

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Lindsay Ford: I'll say the stumbling blocks, or you know, when they're trying to get into a business, you want to follow a proven plan because there's security in that. But this is something that I've actually struggled with throughout the last.

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Lindsay Ford: you know. Let's call it 8 years, as I've been evolving through my different businesses. Because how much do you follow? Sort of the proven path versus how much do you venture out on your own? It's been like this back and forth thing. So I'm curious to know your experience with the proven methods versus you know, really tuning into that those different aspects of yourself, like the human design, like the gene codes, like the akashographic records in terms of like being true to your authentic self.

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Lindsay Ford: wanting to turn to that external validation those external sources, to tell you how to do better, and I mean, I have gone through so many different programs. And it's you know, it works for a little bit. And then I'm just like this is not my voice like I literally like will find myself

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Lindsay Ford: it's such a such a process. But it really does come back to you know there, there is something to be said from learning, from people who have gone before you and and the successes, but also just being able to sit with your fears and your reflection and your self-worth, and just be like, I like this piece, this piece, this piece, and I'm going to apply that. And I'm going to do it in this context instead.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: They may bring something to a session for us to implement. But it could just be because they saw a Youtube video. And then they're convinced like this is the thing that's gonna work. And then we would lose traction because it wouldn't work. They would get frustrated.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I I'm that's that would be me doing you a disservice, and I don't. 1 of the other things in my chart is like integrity. And

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: so it's like no. And so that

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: that is where we start. Now we start with them, understanding who they are. And then once they kind of get a feel, and they're experimenting with their strategy and authority.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: You know, 70% of the population are generators. So something's gonna show up for them to respond to that. They can genuinely see how they feel about it. And then when we get to that portion, we can start bringing those pieces in like, oh, I think I might want to do this. And it's like, Okay.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: and we have ways for them to check in with themselves and make sure like, is this you?

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Or is this the mind telling you that this is gonna work, and you're just like.

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Lindsay Ford: How do you tell the difference?

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Well for generators, we do sacral sessions. So yes, no questions giving that sacral something to respond to

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: for non-energy types like projectors, reflectors, manifestors, having those open-ended questions for them to hear and speak their truth and have it, you know, reflected back to them so they can process it.

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Lindsay Ford: Okay. I love that. I didn't know that difference between like the open ended versus the closed ended.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Yeah.

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Lindsay Ford: That's fascinating to me, all right. It makes sense. Given how I like muscle test things, and I'm just like, Show me. Yes, show me? No, yes.

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Lindsay Ford: did you? You said you had a question for me. Do you remember what it is?

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Yeah. So at 1st I was. I'm just curious about, if you remember, if your throat was defined or not.

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Lindsay Ford: Undefined.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Undefined. Okay? Because at first, st when you said and I and I sense that because at 1st you were like

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: people always love to hear my perspective. And I was like, was it the same perspective? But then, when I heard you say, like you, you find yourself

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: like mimicking the people that you're learning from. I was like, no, no, because I have a completely open throat. I'm like, no, that sounds undefined or open. But it's beautiful, because we don't have that fixed way of speaking. People do love our perspective because it's like it's tailor made for them in that moment. It's not this fixed thing. So that was.

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Lindsay Ford: It is I.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I'm.

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Lindsay Ford: Like the annoying person that if you travel with me I'll pick up an accent, and it's just super

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Lindsay Ford: super annoying. I'm like I don't know what's happening right now.

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Lindsay Ford: But you are like, you're right, because forget for communicating with people like I find myself like, if I'm around someone who's swearing a lot. I will start swearing a lot like I will just like adapt my language, and I'm not being inauthentic.

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Lindsay Ford: It's just like how I operate, and it's wild to me because and but then, like, when I am trying to, you know, be in my my business, and like show up authentically sometimes it is hard to differentiate like, what is actually me versus? What am I just like mirroring and reflecting from other people?

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Lindsay Ford: it's just. It's such a wild ride.

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Lindsay Ford: Okay, so who do you? So you work with business owners? How can people find you if they want to work with you?

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Yeah. The easiest way for them to find me is through my website, diamond drip, consulting.com.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: It's through there they can pull their free human design chart, and I'll send them some resources after they pull their chart. To really understand it.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: I always say the best way to connect with me is to learn something about you which starts with the chart. But I am on social everywhere, so they can connect with me there, too. All the links are on my site.

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Lindsay Ford: Amazing. I might have to go download your insights on my human design, because

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Lindsay Ford: it's 1 of those things that like them like I've learned so much about it. But a lot of it doesn't stick.

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Lindsay Ford: So yeah, this has been a really, really fun conversation. Thank you so much for being here, I so so appreciate it.

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Diamond - #CoachDiamondDrip: Same, I appreciate it being here with you.